Can a persons heart be controlled? Do all people go have some form of
emotional management or emotional labor in their lives? In the book, The Managed
Heart, written by Arlie Hochschild , discusses the issues of emotional labor and
emotional management. In the book, it describes the difference between the two
issues and gives Hochschilds opinion on those issues. The first issue is
emotional management. This is where the fight attendants learn how to deal with
certain situations that they might encounter. Basically, they are taught to
manage their emotions and look at their situation from the other side. By doing
this, the flight attendants can create a happy and more comfortable setting for
the passengers. On page 113 in the book, it states that the fight attendants
should imagine a reason to excuse an obnoxious or unruly passenger. This is what
Delta teaches: emotional management. The other issue is emotional labor. The use
of emotional management is emotional labor. They flight attendants use surface
acting in everyday work life. They are there to make the passenger feel
comfortable and happy. This is a cover sheet for the flight attendants emotions.
They are in a way bottling up their feelings to produce another feeling. The
problem with emotional labor and surface acting are they become a part of that
person. Hochschild thinks that this is a bad thing because one will never break
away from the emotional labor and in turn have trouble expressing their inner
feelings, (deep acting) in their private lives. In summary, emotional management
is emotional labor. Emotional management is the learning how to deal with
situations. Emotional labor is the actual use of the emotional management.
Learning emotional management is helpful, but can affect that persons
lifestyle. When they use emotional labor, they are hiding their inner feelings
to create are better atmosphere for others. People using this might never be
able to distinguish the difference between their surface acting and deep acting.
Hochschilds sees this as a problem for the people affected by this emotion
manipulator. This will affect their friends, family, and the rest of society.